| | Camouflage is so last season
Since I'm no where near a Study Mood cloud, I might as well get all these thoughts out of my head.
These past few days has gotten me thinking, how far would you go for a guy?
They say there's a fine line between fighting for what you want and plain ol' Desperado-Ville.
Then how come they don't teach us these things in school? How for the life of us, will we ever know when too much is too much without a meter of some sort? When we play coy, we get the feeling that you're backing out because you don't feel our interest. Then we feel bad ie. "Shit. I should have (insert what we would have done if we listened to our heart) instead of (insert what we ACTUALLY did by listening to our head) ". So when we do decide to reciprocate, all of a sudden you've lost all ability to respond.
Have guys really lost that drool-worthy I-will-go-all-out-for-a-girl persistence? What happened to those days where the males would trek across mountains, swim across oceans (fine these days we fly but you get what I'm saying), fight dragons (or opposing parents) just to get to the girl they love?
Before the label Boy-Basher is forever imposed on me  , no I don't think that the the aforementioned male species are extinct. I think it's in every guy out there! You don't know it, but as smashing as you may look in an outfit or as big your bulging biceps may be, all every girl wants in her guy is plain and simple.
100% commitment
A promise that we will remain the only girl in your heart and that you will protect us with whatever strength you can muster.
In return, you get our hearts. And that, as my chimui's mum once said, is the most invaluable thing a girl can give. Why you ask?
Because we can't take it back! Once we've given it , you either take care and preserve it or you break it.
And THAT guys, means a whole lot.
So, I know males hate ball-busters. How a girl can be the one to take the lead in the relationship. Making the first moves. Asking for the first date. Expressing our feelings first.
If you don't like us doing that, here's a handy tip.
Do it yourself! If the girl's at all the least bit decent, she won't put you down and snigger while poking fun at how you're still wearing plaid in 2007 to her friends. If she does, then she's not a girl you would want to be in a relationship anyway! If you're upset because, daymn she was a hot piece of ass and you had a bet with your friends you could bonk her at the night's end, then really, YOU are the piece of ass  and I suggest you grow up before you ever attempt any contact with a girl again. Capish?
I know there's lots of you out there, camouflaging your authentic traditional values with (believe it or not it turns us off) male ego and that I-am-so-macho-cool facade. It's not cool anymore! We ain't 5 year olds where you pull on my pigtail and spit on my birthday cake as sign of your crush for me. 
Don't even get me started on the whole nonsense of "being shy". Fine, then DON'T be a man. EVER!
Hmmm I kind of lost my plan of action here but my point is
I LOVE the guy-girl relationship. That tingly warm fuzzy feeling that it brings to the two, the way that short moment of eye contact seem to last forever or the subtle message that is sent through a smile.
But the absence of that firey passion of pursuit is making me have second thoughts.
I need more convincing.
*I'm ever hopeful though! My Last.Fm group is not "People who believe in magic rainbows because they're optimists" for nothing y'know?  *
Okay. Back to vectors and planes in 3-D for me...
Over and out!
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| | Posted 10/27/2007 12:07 PM - 63 Views - 0 eProps - 2 comments
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